Every person has to exercise patience in order to face
difficulties, whether he does so willingly or unwillingly. The
noble person exercises patience willingly, because he
realizes the benefits of patience, and he knows that he will
be rewarded for his patience and will be criticized if he
panics. He is aware that if he does not have patience,
panicking and impatience will not help him to regain missed
opportunities, and will not take away things he dislikes.
Whatever is decreed and is qada' wa qadr cannot be
prevented from happening, and whatever is decreed not to
happen cannot be made to happen. So an attitude of
impatience and panic actually causes harm.
A wise man said: "A man with wisdom as soon as adversity
appears does that which a foolish man does after a month
(i.e. he resorts to patience)".
The ignoble man exercises patience only when he realizes
he has no choice. After wasting a lot of time and energy
and panicking and struggling, he realizes that his
impatience will not help him. Then he exercises patience
in the same way that a person who has been tied up to be
whipped exercises patience.
The noble person practices patience in obeying Allah,
whilst the ignoble person exercises patience in obeying the
Shaytan. So ignoble person have the greatest patience in
following their own whims and desires, and have the least
patience in obeying their Lord. They have the greatest
patience in spending in the way of Shaytan and no patience
when it comes to spending even a few pennies in the way
of Allah. They will endure many difficulties in order to follow
their own whims and desires, but cannot bear even the
least difficulties in order to please their Lord. They will
endure slander for the sake of committing wrong action, but
cannot exercise patience in putting up with slander for the
sake of Allah. Such people will avoid enjoining the good
and forbidding the evil for fear of what people will say about
them for doing so, but they will expose their honour to
slander and bear it most patiently for the sake of following
their own whims and desires. Similarly, they are not
prepared to practise patience in devoting themselves to
Allah, but when it comes to devoting themselves to Shaytan
and their own whims and desires, they will exercise
remarkable patience. Such people will never be noble in
the sight of Allah, and on the Day of Resurrection they will
not be raised with the people of nobility and decency.